How to fade out someone?
A guy, I heard lots of good words about him from my friends.. he is the most adoarble boy.. very cute.. etc etc.. but he is divorced.. but he got married when he was very young... well, not his fault etc etc..
I met him.. not through my friends.. I was approached my him in a dance club.. I still remembered the night when we met, I slightly tilled my head .. and I saw a guy with a very nice smile.. I was attracted to him... but there were other guys surrounding me and my friend. When I walked out from the bar.. he approached me, without saying one world, he passed me his business card.. without even saying one word... I recognized his name... he was the guy whom my friends wanted to introduce me long time ago.. We talked for a wile.. but nothing happened..
The next day, I received a call message from my friend... she told me that this guy already asked for my number.. my friend was not in Japan. He really tried hard... the next Monday he already called and we had dinner the friday..
But stupid enough.. he started talking about his divorce and that he doesn't want to get married or committed anymore.. and that he would be leaving Japan in July.. so.. what's he saying?? From a very objective, 3rd party's perspective, I see this guy just wants to have some fun before he leaves Japan, since he Japanese is pretty crap.. not good enough to talk about anything with Japanese girls, except just have some fun at night and offer them a cup of tea.. I truely know he just wants to have some fun.. or feel convenient with me.
Why he told me about his divorce? He might be a good guy, who didn't want to lie to me?? but what's the point of telling me?
He has been persistent.. I think he made an effort as well.. I met him a few times.. but he seemed to like to parade me to his friends.. Am I just a showcase??
I was going to meet him for dinner, but decided I didn't want to see him.. I declined him for dinner, but somehow we bumped into each other in the dance club. opps!! where I met him.. well, what a co-incident? He tried to talk to me.. but I was with other friends.. and funny enough, his friends.. came to talk to me instead, 3 of them... one after another. If I was with him on that night, he would have taken me with him to parade to these so-called friends who came to pick me up.
Well, I successfully faded someone else.. again...